我们常以为 告别就是简单地挥手

说一声再见

殊不知 原来想念会那么长

像治不好的慢性病

反反复复

才知道

告别不是遗忘的开始

它就是那次洒脱的转身

而你

难以再回头



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我们学会了告别,却低估了想念

音乐故事

打扮得漂漂亮亮的去参加同学聚会，这样自信阳光的自己，我真的好喜欢。跟几个老友相处的感觉还是跟当年一样，仿佛时间倒退，青春也没有走，一切都没变。一个平时联系比较少的同学突然问起我：“你之前不是跟隔壁班那谁在一起吗？他怎么没来？”一句看似不经意的普通问候，这时候在我心里已经像接收到某种敏感信号，开始冒泡，起了疙瘩。

或许人长大的其中一个标志，就是学会了伪装。虽然内心早已暗潮汹涌，但我还是可以云淡风轻地笑笑说：“早就分手了，几百年前的人还提来干嘛？”谎话骗别人容易，要骗自己实在太难了。

聚会结束，走在回家的街，那一盏泛黄寡欢的路灯，我跟它一样，形单影只。这些年，他一直是那个我渴望听到又害怕提及的人，不是不敢面对失去，而是他离开后我才发现，学会停止想念比学会告别，要难多了。





我会一直想你

郭美美

我一直以为，告别只是简单地挥挥手，说声再见，那一瞬间的决裂是多么干脆。殊不知，原来对一个人的想念会那么长，就像治不好的慢性病，反反复复，甚至会跟着随风飘散的落叶，四处弥漫。才知道，告别不是遗忘的开始，它就是那次洒脱又难以再回头的转身。

有人说，等到下一次恋爱，伤口就会完全地愈合。不对啊，他会一直住在心里一个叫做遗憾的位置，因为，那是我曾爱过的人啊！



有一种悲伤

A-Lin

来自投稿：小悦

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龙宝的碎碎念

很抱歉，小可这周又给大家带来一个挺伤感的话题，因为我每次看到评论区总有很多的小伙伴在分享自己的故事，当中关于想念这个词更是被多次地提起。其实很多人都一样，想念一个人的时候，总是不由自主的。就像主持人蔡康永曾说过：你以为你对他的想念，已经到了极致了，已经不可能想念得更多了，结果，在某一个意想不到的时刻，你又成功的，比原来想他的程度，再更多想念他一点点。

或许有一些想念永远不会停止，甚至跟着我们一辈子，但小可想跟大家说，相信你一直心心念念的那个人，一定正在过着他所追求的开心的生活。那你也该好好的，好吗？

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We often think goodbye is simply waving our hands.

Say goodbye.

I don't know how long it was.

Like chronic diseases that cannot be cured

Over and over

not have understood until then

Farewell is not the beginning of forgetfulness.

It is the free and easy turn.

And you

Hard to look back

The

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We learned to say goodbye, but underestimated our yearning.

Music story

I am really very fond of myself. The feeling of getting along with a few old friends is the same as that of those years. It seems that time has gone backwards, youth has not gone, everything has not changed. A classmate who usually has less contact with me suddenly asked me, "Didn't you use to be with someone in the next class? Why didn't he come? " A seemingly casual greeting, at this time in my heart has been like receiving some sensitive signal, began to bubbles, a knot.

Perhaps one of the signs of growing up is to learn to pretend. Although my heart is already dark and turbulent, I can still smile lightly and say, "It's been a long time since we parted. What did people bring up hundreds of years ago?" It is easy to cheat others, but it is too hard to deceive oneself.

At the end of the party, walking on the street back home, I was alone like a street lamp which was yellow and widowed. Over the years, he has been the person I long to hear and fear to mention, not afraid to face loss, but after he left, I found that learning to stop missing is much more difficult than learning to say goodbye.

Fragmentary

Richael

Perhaps everyone who has ever been in love knows that the miss in love period is sweet, and the Miss after quarrel will bring expectation, but the Miss after breaking up is the most grinding. Like me, it lasted for several years, and I didn't know when it would stop.

Speaking of the past feelings, in fact, there is no special place, no Idol-like encounter, he is not a romantic person, two people just feel very chatty, just together like a long-term family as down-to-earth. Although the day is dull, there is no lack of small noise, but give me the feeling that it is the kind of love in the novel. But I did not expect that one day he would be tired of coaxing me, and I would not give up stubbornness, so we said goodbye.

I have to go through it before I understand it: the easier it is to say goodbye, the more painful it is to miss. Because you will slowly remember that some words have not been said, some things have not yet been done, and the last time you stand in front of him as a lover, you decisively chose to turn around quickly and smartly.

It's not hard to break up, but the hard part is the hard life after the breakup.

Cried my eyes out

Xiao HHH

I thought I was strong enough. After he closed the door and left, I went to the kitchen as usual to cook bowls of noodles for myself and brought them to the living room as usual, watching the funny variety show. One mouth, two mouthful, the taste of this surface is not the same as usual, it becomes difficult to enter. Too quiet, didn't you turn up the TV? Why is this program not funny at all? Holding the remote control and pressing it carelessly, I don't want to admit my sadness, but the tears just flow down. The picture on the cabinet was so dazzling, the crisp sound of glass, the broken frame, took away my last bit of stubbornness and wanted to sit like this.

I asked for leave and stayed at home for a few days. I read and read the chat records, listened to the song we all like, and always wanted to find something to do with him. Yes, I feel like I'm suddenly crazy. I don't know what to do with this day. Originally, when I get used to the life of two people, I suddenly become a person, and life is in disorder. When the meal was cooked carelessly, I bought two copies unconsciously. I used to say goodnight to him. I deleted and deleted them after typing in the input box.

I can't remember how long it took for me to live like this. All I know is that it slowly calmed down and gradually returned to the normal track. I got up and went to work as usual, as if nothing had happened. Only miss this thing, never stop. In the street and the shop we had eaten together, we went to too many places together, and his shadow was everywhere. But I no longer cry, after all, single life can also gradually get used to it.

Think of him like this from time to time, a shallow layer, coming and going back and forth in my mind.

I will always miss you.

Jocie Guo

I always thought that saying goodbye was just waving and saying goodbye. How crisp the split was in that instant. Little imagine, the original miss of a person will be so long, like a chronic disease that can not be cured, repeated, and even follow the wind scattered leaves, everywhere. Just know, farewell is not the beginning of forgetting, it is the turn that free and easy and hard to turn back again.

It is said that the wound will completely heal until the next love affair. No, he will always live in a place called regret in his heart, because that's the person I loved.

There is a kind of sadness.

A-Lin

From contributing: Xiaoyue

I am very sorry.

Xiaoke's broken thoughts

I'm sorry, Xiaoke has brought you another sad topic this week, because every time I see the comment area, there are always many small partners sharing their stories, among which the word "miss" has been mentioned many times. In fact, many people are the same, miss a person, always involuntarily. As the host Cai Kangyong once said: you think you miss him to the extreme, it is impossible to miss more, as a result, in an unexpected moment, you are successful, than the original degree of missing him, and miss him a little more.

Maybe some thoughts will never stop, or even follow us for a lifetime, but Xiao Ke wants to tell you that the person you have been missing must be living the happy life he pursues. Then you should be fine, OK?